Create a list of things you wanna do before you die. Don’t waste your life making money or doing someone else’s jobs. Have you found joy in your life? Have you brought joy to others? These two ultimate questions should be answered YES at the end of your life… Although you’re likely to include travel in your list, you should also take time to think about what you wanna accomplish in each area of your life including work, love, family, health, personal development and contributions. Finally, remember to write it down. Brian Tracy claims that writing down your goals can increase the chances that you’ll accomplist them by 100%.

If your girlfriend is below 16, be warned – you may commit child sexual abuse!! I’ll tell you what, if you haven’t got laid, you haven’t lived! LOL. Alright, all jokes aside, nowadays the topic whether or not you should save sex for marriage has been at the heart of the debate. But if you see the issue in a broader aspect, the issue is no longer an issue. Normally, there are two indispensable yet confused steps before marriage: dating and betrothal. To cut a long story short, dating is perhaps the most romantic period of a couple where a man try his best to court a girl (or conversely). Sex may or may not be involved in this period. The next and last process before marriage is betrothal, or to put it simply, engagement. Betrothal is period where marriage is nearly assured to occur. That is the process sex must be involved. Why? Here comes the answer: Marriage is a huge investment if not the biggest deal of your life. And sexual compatibility, without doubt, is the key to successful marriage. When you go shopping and are going to invest in an adorable but extremely expensive suit, would you try it on? How about getting married without ever trying on your wedding dress…? Yah, as a rule of thumb, test-drive a few models before you buy!, and you get my point! We see it, we feel it but we don’t know how it fits! Therefore, (if you guys haven’t tried) ensure you guys totally ready and give an educated try.

Many tend to agree 30 plus or minus is the ideal age to make the biggest deal of a man’s life. In fact, these ages are the period where men are most ready in terms of both maturity and career (particularly finance). Don’t delay doing it any more: let welcome your other half!

It shouldn’t be your ultimate goal! It’s an outcome of your hard working at the age of 30.