My Loyalty #4yearsinsingapore

Many people based on my appearance and way of carrying things out think that I am the one who likes to “play”, venture and therefore not reliable nor trusted. Yea, they’re right to a certain extent. I’m the sort of those who likes to take risks. I love new challenges. Having said that, I think no one could ever question my ethics, dignity and loyalty.

You don’t know what makes a loyal man. Guess what? If they’re not loyal to you the first time, don’t give the the second chance because they will not loyal to you next time.” – Donald Trump

I’m staying at my current company for more than 1.5 years at a relatively low salary. I stayed even when they expected me to leave and still there after every single one of them have left.

I was lingering over a “dead” love for more than 1 month until i felt it couldn’t work and would go against my principles values.

I am someone many have trusted to tell their “secret” stories.

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No one could ever question that!

I learn them the hard way

What a crazy first 5 months of this year! I learned all of these lessons the hard way.

1. The law of averages

   I’ve mastered “the law of averages”. I skipped seminars after seminars most of which are free. I was waiting for something to happen. I threw away a great chance to meet  one of my idols… (!!!)
   Don’t do what the averages do, you’ll succeed. Keep your promises & reputation along the way as they are probably the most important thing you can nurture #pd

2. Change yourself but not anyone else

   The moment you think you should change someone. Pause & reflect: “You have no right to use your will power upon another person, even ‘for her own good'”. In fact, it’s much easier for you to find a better one rather than to change them. I learned a similar lesson almost 2 years ago, be willing but don’t try to help until you’re asked for. Everyone’s responsible for their own lives. Solve your own problem first. #pd
   

3. Loyalty lesson

   Donald Trump says it best: “You don’t know what makes a loyal man. But guess what!? If they’re not loyal to you the first time, don’t give them the second chance because they won’t be loyal to you the next time!” #love #relationship #business
   

4. Sincere lesson

   Be sincere in your feelings, actions, praise and everything else towards others. If later they realise you weren’t, you know how they would feel and what you would get in return. !?? #relationship

5. Be grateful

   Being happy with/appreciate what you’re having & what you’re given no matter it’s good or bad => Always look at the bright side of the situation. Idk how to describe it better cos it’s as simple as that. #power

6. Don’t ever lie to yourself

   If you have to, lie to anyone else but yourself. It’s simply because the moment you do, you’re killing yourself. It’s even better if you don’t lie at all. Don’t get the habit of lying even from the little small things. White lie? Yup, sometimes but it’s better to avoid it too. #pd