You’ve probably seen a lot of happy couples between a ugly, short guy and a long-legged beautiful girl (and vice versa) and wondered why that could happen? The answer would be we don’t get what we want (that pretty & long-legged girl or that tall & handsome guy), we only get what we deserve:

– If only you have the courage to approach and ask that beautiful girl out

– If only you have the courage to accept someone who may be not as beautiful as you are but is the one who understands you most, make you laugh and forget your sadnesses all the time.

We don’t get what we want. We get what we deserve!”

It’s true in life, work and probably in love as well.

“I want to go to Hawaii…

“I hope to have a chance to getta know her…

“I wish…

“I want…

“I hope…

Yes, you’ve gotta know what you want. But you don’t need say it out loud unconsciously as a mean of complaining or blaming. Instead just say

“I am the the one who can…

“I am the one who deserve…

It’s even better if you can get the best out of people.

“You are great in what you’re doing…

“You can do it…

(Say, encourage and mean it! Don’t ever flatter someone & yourself)

And It’s best if you also can invite & convince them to join you (your journey)

Let’s do this…

Let’s do that…