Do something that lasts!

Lately I’ve discovered what is really meaningful to me in work & life. Surprisingly, it’s just as simple as to do something that lasts. What do I mean by that? Well, I mean:

We should have meaningful & deep conversations particularly with the ones we love rather than just pure chit chat or shallow gossips with “friends”!

We should acquire skills that will help us in life – not just in school or at work.

We should read! (books, autobiographies & not news nor gossips)

We should write timeless articles, together with daily journalling, rather than just school reports.

We should do something that’s gonna stay for a long time not just temporarily like assignments or homework.

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Something that lasts is something meaningful, useful & important.
Do something that lasts so that our lives won’t just pass by.

My Online Personal Development Space

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New Year Resolutions:
2014’s resolutions
2014 Year in Review
2013′s Resolution
2013 Year in Review
2012 New Year’s Resolutions
2011 New Year’s Resolutions

My Life-to-do list: 😀
My Life Bucket List

My Progress:
My Life Map
My Habits

My Setup: Tools Review

My Dreams:
My Ideal Day

2014’s resolutions

I told my friend for 2014 is: FUNDAMENTAL

I follow Robin Sharma’s Formula for Uncommon Success This Year :

1. Know Your One Thing
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2. Know Your 3 Key Habits
   That was my mistake last year when I was not specific, didn’t clarify & just wanna build “as many habits as possible”
   
   • I Meditate & Visualize for min. 30′ a day
   • I Read 1 hour a day – 30′ in the morning & 30′ before going to bed (including SoGR)
   • I Join the 5 o’clock club
3. Delete The Energy Vampires
4. Invest In Personal Development
5. Seek Out Big Joys

“Let Her Go”

First and foremost, I was lucky – damn lucky to have you (!!) though not for a very long time…

To be honest, you’re not the prettiest nor cutest and such. But surely you’re sweetest girl I’ve ever met!!

– You flew here to meet me immediately after I said I was in trouble..

– You cooked, packed and sent it here for me to try..

– You travelled far away just to accommodate me home & surprised me with our delicious home food

– You did it again without me noticing

– You passed what your mom sent you to me just because “you may not have enough” & “it’s nicer”

– You made my best birthday gift ever!! & I happened to receive it at the midnight of the day though it was in my house for a few days. What a surprise! What a coincidence! You would never know how happy I was! I still keep the gift wrapper till now 🙂

– then You always bought my mom gifts & helped me bought her flowers..

… OMG!
I still wonder how those sweetest things could come to me… As I said, “girls are jealous of what I receive & guys are simply jealous of me”!

I don’t know.. I still don’t know why…

Maybe I’m handsome
Maybe I’m smart
Maybe I’m funny
Maybe I’m sweet
Maybe my background..
Maybe my future..

hi`hi`. I’ve just tried to put some jokes here to ease the sadness of this article. I know for sure you didn’t care all of those things. It was just not You.

That’s why I know I was lucky…
But….

Perhaps after what you had done for me, I probably took you for granted. I admitted I did. But it was not the decisive moments. It was long long after that. And I’m experienced enough to know what was going on & appreciate what came to me.

Perhaps we came to each other at the wrong time. It was a pretty tough period for me. I couldn’t do anything for a month or two. It was the toughest days… Having said that, tough periods also led to great opportunities. As I said, we had chances, in fact, a lot of chances but we couldn’t seize it…

Perhaps you’re too sensitive…

Perhaps.

Perhaps..

Perhaps…

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t blame it all to you. I was a part of that…

———–

Despite all other differences, we all love to travel & we did travel together quite a lot of times. Almost all were memorable <3

Now I let you go with a hope that “If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you (without you having to plead and beg), its yours forever. If it doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.”

That saying was right partially – not all. So it’s a hard decision anyway but I’m willing to make it as a man.
I don’t wanna keep you beside for nothing.
I don’t wanna give you much of an vain hope.
I don’t wanna fool you with sweet yet empty words & stuff.
I don’t wanna cheat on you.
I don’t want you to be just as a back-up…

I’m a man and at least that means something.

With all my due confidence & optimism, I still don’t know if I could find someone like you – as sweet as you & particularly love me as much as You do. I know You still do..

I don’t wanna say too much loving (& weak) stuff..
I hope You will stay strong & keep moving forward! Time will show & answer everything.
Now I know one thing for sure that you deserve more than this!

Love!

zzz: if time allows, i will write more…!

If only you said Yes to a few things that you rejected me, things would have gone differently…

Stop… !?

Sometimes I just wanna stop…

22 years old.
– Having had almost everything an average person would want:

Lost of plays.
Lots of Loves.
Lots of great good-and-bad memories & experiences.
A decent & comfortable Job.
Some good Money.
Some average Friends to hangout when sad.
Frequent travelling…

– Should I be content?
– I could…

But I also know I was born to become someone & do something much more & better than that!

I won’t stop!
& I know She will stand by me!

Dog shit

Always bring papers when taking their puppies for a walk.

Actually collect his dog’s shit himself.

WOW.

Top 10 cleanest cities in the world. No Wonder.

Strict laws & rules. So a fine City? Fine.

Spot checks are regularly made by police officers in public toilet cubicles – there is no point having a law if it’s not enforced.

No chewing gun. NVM.

It’s just habits 😉

My Definition of a Loser

Level 1:

• More than 26 years old
• Struggle with his life & job
• Have limited friends & networks
• Good at nothing except complaining, criticising, gossiping whilst mediocre, average at almost everything else

Level 2:

• More than 26 years old
• Single & always available (not a player)
• Achieve little or no success in career – having a stable job
• Travel less than 10 countries and 20 different places
• Purposeless – He doesn’t know what else to do with his time & his life except work (for money), girls and some basic entertainment

Don’t judge a man until he’s thirty!

Level 3

• Have high paid job – i dont mean a successful man should get a low pay but a high paid job doesnt make one successful
• Have a master degree
• Have a Saving account
• Own an expensive car