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– Mai 10h t toi roi. Chac m ban roi ho?

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– “5ph cũng phải gặp!”

…và thế là e tới đúng giờ và chờ a đến gần 1 tiếng…

Những tiếng cười đùa pha chút e thẹn, bối rối, mừng rở.

Nhanh.

nhưng vui & đẹp!

Yêu <3!

My Dream Girl

I think I’ve loved and experienced enough to basically know what I am looking for from a girl. Having said that, I don’t wish to find an exactly same girl nor expect any girls to be this ideal. It’s just a clumsy and ugly drawing of my dream girl.

Here’s SHE after I turn 25  😈 😛 

Basically she is the ONE who turns me ON physically and especially “educationally!”

#1. She’s physically & “educationally” ATTRACTIVE! <3

# So far while I’ve dated some “hot girls”, “Miss Uni” and “dream girls” of many guys, I’ve also dated some very (or below) average-looking girls and felt pretty content. So I’m probably not so picky in terms of look though I believe I deserve an attractive one! 😀 😀 (Looking at my idols, who have a very beautiful & intelligent wife, I ask myself “Why can’t I?) Anyways, she should be presentable & knows how to dress up & be sexy at the very least! 😛

## Many girls find me hard to understand (but interesting) as I always "makes me think!" It’s not that I pretend to be mysterious and hard to understand (I do sometimes to be honest) but rather than I and they have different ways of communicating & understanding things. To put it in a different way, “we’re not quite in the same level (of education, mindset, etc..)” as in the words of a “really tall & hot female friend” of mine. I generally find girls who can more or less read my mind & understand my jokes attractive!

In short, I like those who UNDERSTAND & SUPPORT me, and at the same time, can CHALLENGE me to move forward. Nice & too submissive girls are not attractive either.

#2. She is OPEN-MINDED!

In other words, she is willing to LISTEN (to new ideas, opinions, etc.) and CHANGE! Some Many people (both girls and guys) simple don’t(!!!) even if they claim they do! That’s probably the foundation of everything I want from her in our world. If she’s open-minded,

• she will be willing to try new (“weird”) things;
• she will happily accept our differences and changes;
• she is (or will be) a free thinker;
• she is a B/I! (vs E/S – don’t know what these words stand for? Please read Rich Dad Poor Dad!)
• she will READ…

#3. She shares some basic interests, hobbies & MISSIONS!

Sports (football), intimacy and traveling are all essential parts of my life. So are HERS hopefully! More importantly, she’s PASSIONATE about what she does and loves!

She also knows that we’re here not only to enjoy what life can offer us but also to make it a BETTER place!

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the “OLD” HER

Alright, here is She whose characteristics are described in no particular order:

She

… is tall and physically attractive

… makes tasty & yummy family meals

.. smiles (bashfully)

… appreciates what she’s having

… forgives and forgets her old wounds

… is – a free thinker – mentally free from any taboos.

… accepts a tattoo name of the girl who has made a life-turn impact on me together with her name in my body. JK. haha.

.. plays (- treats her work as play)

… loves doing unconventional things & enjoys breaking rules together

… is hard on herself and selective about whom she lets in

… enjoys watching a full, long and “boring” football match together

… doesn’t care what movie we’re watching as long as we’re touching

… likes to wear skirt – short skirt? awesome :xxxxxxxx 😀

… is willing to remove the word “impossible” out of her vocabulary

.. hugs (from the front, tightly)

… likes walking under the rain hand in hand

… bares her soul when making love

… likes dark, candlelight & love songs atmosphere

… appreciates my sincere reminders that she’s beautiful and that I love her

… loves pausing to kiss – suddenly, slowly & passionately

… stays just beside me when I need her most without me saying anything

.. laughs (out loud)

21 😡

… writes, reads & listens

… loves traveling & exploring the world

24 😛

I will keep updating it until I settle down. (Last updated on Nov 17, 2012 Oct 25, 2015)

So why are you still single?

Huế Mù Sương

Huế dày đặt sương mù trong chiều tà

Đọc bài viết chợt nhớ bài hát “Huế mù sương” (Nguyễn Minh Khôi) mà trong đó luôn vang vẳng những câu hát buồn: Đã lâu rồi anh không về thăm Huế; Huế bây chừ buồn lắm không em? ….
3 tháng rưỡi – có những lúc qua mau, có những lúc lại lâu đến kinh khủng.
Dòng thời gian không bao giờ ngừng chảy, nhưng hởi ôi Lòng người lắm lúc lại đong đưa !! Hay nói như Thu Bồn là “con sông” cứ “dùng dằng”, con sông không chảy!
Hãy dồn lý trí vào tương lai, hãy chôn nỗi buồn vào dĩ vàng, để trái tim nói được nên lời: Ôi ôi nhớ lắm cơ 😡 Sắp được về nhà rồi!! YEAH 😀

ps: Gửi đến e – tình yêu a và nỗi nhớ.

What’s love?

A student asks a teacher, “What is love?”

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: – you can go through them only once & cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders….may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one… but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he starts to realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, “…this is love… you keep looking for better ones, but when later you realise, you have already missed the person ….”*

“What is marriage then?” the student asked.

The teacher said, “in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.”

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he
has picked one medium sized corn that he felt satisfied, and came back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, “this time you bring back a corn…. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get…. this is marriage.”

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